It is sad, but understandable, when people to fall out of love with one another, but it is not fine for them to treat their partners badly and offer to set them up – pimp them, almost! – with other people. Can we imagine for a moment if the roles were reversed? Perhaps you would see how emotionally abusive this relationship is. Your wife says she respects you but I think she needs a dictionary. You should be asking yourself what you want, given how very shabbily you have been treated. No, and this isn’t the question you should be asking. Would it be wise to talk about it with her?
I have never thought romantically about her. She is a beautiful woman whom I have known since I met my wife. I do not know what to think or do concerning Anita. I fear that my frustrations on knowing that my love for my wife is hopeless will make our life together eventually unbearable. We are on good terms and I would hate our relationship to become grim. She advised me to get into a relationship with her best friend – let’s call her Anita – saying we would be a perfect match. I do love her and am still in love with her, but her behaviour has hit me quite hard.
I told her so, just as I told her that it would be way beyond what I can and am willing to accept. I believe this is a very cruel way of playing with my feelings, letting me know that she intends to leave me but that, in the mean time, she wants to stay with me as a “roomie ” for the children’s sake, and probably also for economical reasons. She said she was considering ending our marriage when the children are grown.
Recently my wife acknowledged that she is no longer in love with me she loves me as the father of her children, admires me, respects me, loves me as a family member, but is neither attracted to me nor in love with me. When I asked her whether it had something to do with the other guy, she said no and I believe her. Over the last year or so, she’s become more distant. After many discussions, we managed to get back together as she “chose ” us. About four years ago I found out that she was having a “platonic ” affair with one of her colleagues. She then became progressively more distant. My wife became uninterested in our sex life about 10 years ago. Jennifer Hudson – wife and I have been married for nearly 20 years. Blige and Andrea Bocelli – Oprah Holiday Special Blige and Andrea Bocelli, Go Tell It On The Mountain/Mary Had A Baby by Vanessa Williams and O Holy Night by Jennifer Hudson.Įnjoy the weekend and remember Christmas is almost here!
The Choir is working to record their music for the future.įor now, I hope you will enjoy a few of my favorite Christmas songs: What Child is This, by Mary J. I want to publicly thank Pauline for always including me in this experience. On this occasion, The Chancel Choir, under the directorship of Oscar Stephenson and accompanied by an orchestra, presented Bethlehem‘s Child with ease, elegance and amazing grace.Īt the end of the performance the members of the congregation, especially Pastor, Rev. It felt as if there were more than 200 guests in attendance. For years, it has been my honor to accompany Pauline Budd, my good friend and neighbor, to this special performance which is a mainstay in our community. Mark’s United Methodist Church in Brooklyn. After all, where would we the wonderful gift of music?īefore I continue, I must tell you about an inspiring concert I attended this past Sunday, December 8th, at St. Today, I would like to share some of the songs that seem to put everyone in the spirit of Christmas. In my last post, I shared some of the beautiful decorations that can be seen throughout our City.